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I’ve noticed…

     Not only in my own life, but in women of all ages, the want for a romantic or emotionally intimate relationship on this earth. And we don’t just want it, we really want it. Some of us desire it more than anything, to the point that it makes us upset or sad when God doesn’t fulfill our hopes and prayers for relationship to come along.
     But what are we really hoping for?
     We want an ideal relationship. The perfect husband. Yes, of course, the perfect husband with faults (because no one is perfect, after all). But the most ideal guy we can think of. Sometimes we want this ideal guy so badly, we start to see him in almost ANY guy! I know that sometimes I start to think I am fond of a guy just because I think he is fond of me… :b   But let me tell you something very important. THIS GUY DOESN’T EXIST. 
     Yes, God is preparing you for the love of a lifetime, and he knows you deserve the best. But, more often than not, the love of a lifetime isn’t with a man. Not a HU-man anyway. And the best can’t always be given by humans, either.
     My fellow followers of God…. STOP SEARCHING FOR LOVE HERE ON EARTH!!!
     Even if you are looking for a relationship, stop looking for one that is romantic or emotional. Start looking for a FRIENDSHIP, first and foremost. God will take it from there.

“Why are you looking for love?

Why are you still searching as if I’m not enough?”